I won’t sacrifice my body to give birth to a child unless I get an annual allowance of £250k, others —influencer
A London influencer and child-free woman says she won’t ‘sacrifice’ her body for a baby unless she is paid a £250,000 annual allowance, given a push present, and a mummy makeover.
Jenny Darling, 23, from Bishopsgate, London, revealed her ‘non-negotiables’ for pregnancy to make it ‘worth’ the toll on her physical and mental health.
According to Daily Mail, Jenny said she would need to be married before falling pregnant, with a prenuptial agreement, and she’d like a ‘babymoon’ abroad before giving birth.
Following the birth, she wants a £250,000 annual allowance to pay for therapy, a personal trainer and anything she’d need for herself and the baby.
Jenny’s list of demands doesn’t stop there; she also wants a doula and a housekeeper for the first six months postpartum, who would be replaced by a weekly cleaner after that.
She also demands a luxury push present – such as a car or apartment – and a mummy makeover, including a tummy tuck and boob job.
Jenny said: ‘Motherhood is priceless. You can’t put a number on what is worth sacrificing.
‘Creating a human life takes a lot of sacrifice. I’d never put my body through that for free. I’m not built to suffer.’
Jenny has always wanted to be ‘childless’. She added: ‘I’ve wanted to be childless since I started periods.
‘I asked doctors to take my uterus out.
She continued: ‘Kids are expensive. I wouldn’t want to bring a child into this world to suffer.
‘I would have kids on the terms it’s a good motherhood experience for me.’
She added: ‘I don’t want kids. If it was to happen these are my non-negotiables.’
Jenny would need to have a prenup in place before falling pregnant. She said: ‘I would need to be married before I would even have a child – mainly because of my religion and protection for the baby. ‘I want a prenup to cover anything that would impact my life – infidelity and things like that.
Jenny would want to go on a babymoon to have one last proper holiday before the arrival of a little one.
She said: “You have to give up everything you enjoy and that makes you you.’ Jenny said she’d need an allowance per year to cover the costs of activities for herself and her baby. She said: “I’d need a £250k annual allowance. ‘For therapy sessions, a PT, all of the things you’d need to live. It’s investing in our life and future.’
Jenny would also want a doula and a housekeeper following the birth. She said: “I don’t know how women do cooking, cleaning and working as a mum. I commend that but it’s not going to be me.